{"id":5862,"date":"2017-09-24T23:03:50","date_gmt":"2017-09-24T23:03:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thelamplighters.org\/llblog01\/?p=5862"},"modified":"2017-09-24T23:03:50","modified_gmt":"2017-09-24T23:03:50","slug":"he-told-me-not-to-tell-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thelamplighters.org\/llblog01\/he-told-me-not-to-tell-2\/","title":{"rendered":"He Told Me Not To Tell"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Most children who are sexually assaulted are taken advantage of by someone they know. Eighty-five percent of sexual assaults on children are by people known to them. <em>He Told Me Not to Tell,<\/em> a booklet published by King County Sexual Assault Resource Center, is a parents\u2019 guide to talking to children about sexual assault. This booklet is a collection of ideas gathered from parents for dealing with the difficult subject of talking to children about sexual assault. It covers the following topics:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>It\u2019s hard to talk about<\/li>\n<li>What is the sexual assault of a child?<\/li>\n<li>What we fear and what is more likely to happen<\/li>\n<li>Talking to your child about sexual assault<\/li>\n<li>Helping children protect themselves<\/li>\n<li>What can I do besides talk<\/li>\n<li>The \u201cWhat if\u201d game<\/li>\n<li>Ways kids tell someone they need help<\/li>\n<li>If you learn your child has been assaulted<\/li>\n<li>Reporting?<\/li>\n<li>A medical exam?<\/li>\n<li>What about the long term?<\/li>\n<li>Offender information<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This is a guide that all parents should have and read. Remember that children of an untreated sexual assault victim stand a five times greater chance of being assaulted themselves. To order a copy call 425-226-5062.<\/p>\n<p>King County Sexual Assault Resource Center. P.O Box 300, Renton, WA 98056 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kcsarc.org\">www.kcsarc.org<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If your child has been assaulted and needs help please look into getting a copy of REPAIR For Kids \u00a0(information at https:\/\/thelamplighters.org\/llblog01\/books\/repair-for-kids\/) or REPAIR For Teens (at <a href=\"https:\/\/thelamplighters.org\/llblog01\/books\/repair-for-teens\/\">https:\/\/thelamplighters.org\/llblog01\/books\/repair-for-teens\/<\/a>) and have them begin the journey to recovery .<\/p>\n<div data-animation=\"no-animation\" data-icons-animation=\"no-animation\" data-overlay=\"on\" data-change-size=\"\" data-button-size=\"0.7\" style=\"font-size:0.7em!important;display:none;\" class=\"supsystic-social-sharing supsystic-social-sharing-package-flat supsystic-social-sharing-content supsystic-social-sharing-content-align-left\" data-text=\"Share on your social media pages\"><a data-networks=\"[]\" class=\"social-sharing-button sharer-flat sharer-flat-1 counter-standard 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