We Promise:
1. To tell our story
2. To uncover and validate the truth of family secrets
3. To understand and accept what has happened
4. To learn to forgive, both ourselves and our perpetrators
5. To reach out with love and support to other survivors of child sexual abuse, incest, rape, sexual assault and domestic violence
6. To be there for one another
7. To share wisdom we have learned through REPAIR and any other sources
8. To appreciate and savor the joys of life on a daily basis
9. To be a Lamplighter, an inspiration and a guiding light for all who were abused, for the rest of our lives
10. To strive to be all that we ever hoped to be, regardless of what happened when we were children
